#224: Teacher to Student: If I Knew Then What I Know Now

How often do we say, “If I only knew then, what I know now”? Sometimes it’s about life experience, like surviving teenage drama. Sometimes it’s about turning down an opportunity, like not buying stock in Facebook before the company went big. 

Obviously, we aren’t able to go back in time and really have a “do over.”  I imagine that if we could, It’s more than possible that the result wouldn’t be what we expect. We can never know how our world would have been altered, if we’d taken the other fork in the road. We can only guess. 

Here’s my “if I only knew then” statement for today: If I only knew as a young harp student what I know now as a harp teacher. The fact behind this is key. The fact is that everything I learned about being a good student, I learned from trying to be a good teacher. If I had known as a student even half of what I’ve learned through my teaching, my harp life might have been so much easier. 

Most teachers of any subject will tell you how much they learn from their students. One of the most powerful things I have learned is how many different paths there are to being a harpist. Discovering how to craft a course designed with each student’s strengths, needs, goals and desires in mind is not easy. But I have found it indescribably rewarding. I have such deep respect for my students - for their efforts, for their achievements, for their trust in me, for the incredible people they are. 

But we aren’t talking about me or my students today, at least not exactly. What I want to share with you are the four most important aspects of being a harp student or a harp teacher. They have nothing to do with repertoire or technique. They are applicable to every student/teacher relationship, and they apply equally, but differently, for both students and teachers. I’m offering them to you today in the hope that they inspire you to bring a different mindset or intention to your study or your teaching or both.

Links to things I think you might be interested in that were mentioned in the podcast episode: 

• Teachers Retreat registration closing this week. Register here.
• Level up! Work with one of our Harp Mastery® Certified Coaches.  
• Harpmastery.com

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